Dear Reader, I would like to ask you some questions. Have you ever stopped, and questioned what’s happening around you, your surroundings, the thoughts flowing through your mind? Have you ever mentally removed yourself from a situation and wondered, how did I get here? If you answered ‘yes’ to the previous questions, I would like to ask one final question. Have you ever wondered if you will ever be able to relive that particular circumstance? This line of questioning is not unlike the grossly over used proverb “stop and smell the roses”, a saying that, until recently, I have been unable to fully comprehend. However, the start of a new chapter in my life has forced me to pause and smell the proverbial roses, and has also made me realise that I have failed to cherish certain moments in my life, moments that I will never be able to relive, and this realisation is one that will haunt me for years. My inability to see the “bigger picture” got in the way of me creating memories